There are many things that just plain suck about losing a baby. I could start a list for you now, but I'm not quite sure there's enough time in the day to write that list. One of the hardest things dealing with other people. People are notorious for saying the wrong thing. I'm sure I've done it to someone, even though I came from a place of love. It just happens. And I would say about 97% of the horrible things I hear, come from a well-meaning heart.
Most of the time I volunteer talking about our angels and I always say how many I have. Four. I say this to acknowledge each one of them, each piece of my heart. I still will, and always will, tell people I have four angels regardless of the response that comes without fail. The look of shock, raised eyebrows, eyes wide open, and then those 2 words.
